This mentality, publicly expressed on a social media page, is the insane mentality that some of us deal with on a day to day basis. This parent sees any affection that the children in this case express towards the other parent as a LOSS to his self worth. Most parents try to make something out of their lives, no matter how small the effort, as our children see us as role models and mirror our behavior and actions.
In this case children are being taught to see the other parent as a sub-human being to be denigrated, abused and controlled at whim and to obtain a sense of self worth out of these actions as this is ALL this parent lives for. This is what the Riverside Superior Court considers to be the BEST interest of the child. This parent has made it clear that he considers the children to be a battle ground. This type of mentality is the one that “believes” if I can’t have the children then no one can and he is incapable of actually viewing the other parent as a parent with relevance to children.